With all of the media attention on texting and driving, I thought I would weigh in. I agree that cell phones, and their associated apps, can provide a distraction for drivers, but that isn’t the only culprit. I once knew a man who was a chain smoker, and he was always going down the road with a glass of tea, a cigarette, and his cell phone going all at one time. I, for one, tried to never be on the same road with him. But are we going to legislate completely how we behave behind the wheel of a vehicle? It has not done a lot for speeding and tailgating. People still eat, put on makeup, smoke, drink (both alcohol and non-alcoholics beverages), watch movies, scope our their navigation systems, and carry on conversations with passengers and other drivers, too. All of this behavior is distracting when you are driving.
I do not intend to say that an all or nothing approach is appropriate, but I do believe government is getting too involved in my every day life. What I would like to see is for old fashioned manners and common sense come back into our society. If this happened, people would think twice before engaging in dangerous behavior of any kind. They would think of the other folks on the road, and how it might also impact them. A friend was recently in an accident where another car clipped him on the interstate going in excess of 100 mph. Fortunately, even though his truck was totalled, he was not severely injured. However, the other driver died. What was he thinking?
When I advise people regarding safety in my Automotive Boot Camp, it generally concerns the mechanical operation of their vehicles. Having your tires and brakes in top notch condition is a recurring theme. I do not generally get into the behavior of other people, as it is really none of my business. But, the attitude of the driver is as much a part of being safe on the road as the mechanics. Anger, rage, hunger, and thoughtlessness lead to putting the driver and many other people in harm’s way. Most of the time, no one thinks of this when they get behind the wheel. Maybe we should make it a check you do before you start the engine.
Believe me when I say, I know I talk on the phone while on the road. Is it safe for me and others? No. I think the attention being given this subject is good, and now I often find myself hitting the “ignore” button while on the road. Then, when I do stop, I can retrieve the voice mail and return the call safely. I was especially conscious of this recently while driving through the heart of Atlanta. The phone rang, and I knew for a certainty that I did NOT need to answer it at that moment.
Maybe this piece will give you pause when you are driving. Maybe you will think twice before getting into that conversation. Honestly, I will probably not completely stop using my cell when I am in the car, but I can promise you that I will carefully consider where I am and what is going on before calling or answering. After all, it is courteous. And, when I learned to drive, courtesy was a huge part of what was taught.
Motorcyclists always say “ride safe” when they take off. Maybe we should adopt “drive safe” for cars. Human nature is such that each and every one of believe we are being safe, even when we are not. Calling a spade a shovel, be honest with yourself when you are on the road.
I ask this question in parting. “Is it worth the risk?”
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